Priorities Change

I had written this piece of write up in the third semester when things were in a turmoil for me and my friends. Hope this doesn't bore u...

We sit and think, contemplate to do what we need to or decide if the things are worth doing. We confuse ourselves, get tangled in the myriad thoughts. We don’t know how to get out of the predicament. We just have to realise what are our priorities at that very instant. Will the steps taken to complete what the priority demands will make us happy or not. Sometimes the things we do just don’t live up to our expectations which disappoints us to a great deal because it reminds of the pain we had to go through in achieving it that just goes in vain. We make the same kind of mistakes again, face some new problems again make new mistakes and gradually learn from them. This process is somewhat kind of evolution where the new species is better than the preceding one by not inheriting the traits which make the older one weaker. Eventually up this tree of evolution the top is the best. Similarly as we mature we learn and keep learning from our mistakes and till we get old we start to make some really tough but good decisions. The process of learning is naturally incorporated in everyone for everything by nature. Just along the way we realise that a person’s priorities never remain same. They change from the day he was born to the day he dies. At birth its natural that no one realises what he or she’s priorities are but we knew that we needed our mother and she was our first priority and we should stick to her. Gradually our priorities change from our mother to how to enjoy life and be famous among friends. Yes guys I am talking about the age old topic peer pressure. Though you agree it or not in our teen ages our first priority is to how be a hit at our schools and colleges. And then again time plays its cold game and priorities change from friends to money, work, and society. I have known the journey up to here. Though it’s a very little experience it was enough for me to understand that if I need to live a life free of worries I need to clear my head and set my priorities ahead of me. So friends, I hope this might have helped you to get into a deep introspection of yourselves. If it bored you out then I am sorry because I am not much of a writer. If it interested you then I am thankful to ARNY my friend.